Women's Environmental Intelligence · Research Survey
No right answers — only true ones. The open questions are intentionally open. Write as much as feels honest. Your words go directly into the research and into the book.
Confidential · Anonymous option available · 5–10 minutes
What you'll be asked
Growing up, did you find yourself monitoring the mood or emotional state of a man in your life before he said a word? Was it something you chose, or something that simply started?
Has monitoring a man's emotional state ever exhausted you in ways that were hard to explain — even to yourself?
Can you tell the difference between a man who is genuinely present and a man who is performing presence? How do you know?
Describe a moment when you felt genuinely safe with a man. Not impressed, not attracted. Safe. What changed in you?
Does this monitoring extend beyond the men you're closest to — to coworkers, peripheral figures, family you see occasionally?
There is a young man standing at the door of the manosphere right now. He is not hateful. He is lonely and confused. If you could say one thing to him — what would you say?